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Make Decisions

So far you have made decisions related to various facets of life. You
have decided which university to attend, what classes to take, and where
to live. Similarly, selecting a major or career involves obtaining appropriate
information and being aware of the numerous factors that may influence
your decision. The information below is designed to help you examine how
you currently make decisions and offers several approaches to making future
decisions.
Factors Influencing Decisions
Information Factors
Decision-Making Experience
- Confidence in decision-making abilities comes from having made successful
decisions in the past. Think about the positive decisions you have
made already. How did you make those decisions? What resources helped
guide you through your decision-making process?
Personal Factors
- Support and influence from family and friends can have a big effect
on your decisions, especially for significant decisions that may impact
the important people in your life.
- Consider how your options are compatible with your values, interests
and abilities. An example could be: "My previous experience as
a student teacher has confirmed my interests in becoming a teacher.
Plus, having the summers off will allow me to spend more time with
my family." You may need to Evaluate Yourself
to clarify your interests, values, skills and personality style.
- The number of desirable options is often a factor. People with many
interests and abilities find decision-making difficult because they
believe they will have to sacrifice appealing options. Those with
undefined interests find decision-making difficult as well because
none of the options appear attractive.
Decision-Making Styles
Reality Check
There isn't necessarily one model or style that is always
the right way to make decisions. And remember, different people
are successful and satisfied using different styles. So what
works well for your friend may not be the style that works best
for you.
The method you use to make decisions will depend on your personal decision-making
style and the weight of the decision. Each decision-making style has
advantages and disadvantages; what is most important is that you use
a style that is comfortable and effective for you. You can always use
a different style depending on your situation.
It is often best to use a planned decision-making style when making
important or complicated decisions. In other words, gather information
and apply a systematic and deliberate approach that is a balance between
logical reasoning and intuition. A planned approach takes time and
energy but is worthwhile when you have to make important decisions.
You will also be more confident with your decision if you know you have
done your homework and it feels right intuitively.
Other decision-making styles can be used when you face time constraints,
or when the decisions are not of great consequence. Sometimes it is
easier or more comfortable to make a decision based on your emotions,
to let other people influence you, or to leave the decision up to fate.
Take Action: Decision-Making Models
Reality Check
Remember that you are not alone in the decision-making process.
If you want help working through one or more of these decision-making
models, or if the outcome of using one of the models is confounding
or surprising, make an appointment with a Career Center counselor.
- Pros & Cons Model
- On a piece of paper, write down the decision you are considering
making. Write it as if you had already made the decision (for example,
"Accept the XYZ Company job offer in Los Angeles.")
- Divide the piece of paper into two columns, with "Pros"
at the top of one column. Write down the outcomes of the decision
that you believe are positive.
- In the "Cons" column, write down the outcomes of the
decision that are negative or less desirable.
- In the course of writing down your pros and cons, you will probably
notice that there are some outcomes that are uncertain or are too
hard to predict. Write these outcomes down on a separate piece of
paper.
- Conduct Research about the outcomes
that you are unsure about, then add those to the Pro or Con column.
- For the outcomes that are simply too hard to predict, you might
want to talk with other people to get their input or opinions. If
possible, evaluate if the outcome is a pro or con and add that to
your table.
- As you begin to complete the table, it may become clearer if the
decision you are considering is advisable.
Note: Some outcomes carry more weight than others, so the number
of pros and cons in each column is not necessarily indicative of whether
or not you should move forward with the decision.
- Analytical Decision-Making Worksheet
Use the Career Center's
Decision-Making
Worksheet (PDF) to help you evaluate which of your options may be the
best for you based on your values. The worksheet takes you through
an analytical approach to comparing up to three options. This is a
PDF file that you can print out and use for any type of decision.
- Imaginative, Visualization Exercise
If you are more of an intuitive decision-maker, you may prefer this
imaginative exercise. Open or print a copy of the Visualization
Exercise. You may want to have a friend or a Career Center counselor
lead you through the visualization, or you may just want to read through
the exercise and imagine on your own.
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